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Determine the different communication styles of people involved with the business
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Find new ways to improve the quality of business relationships |
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Key decisions, critical actions and benchmarks
Dialogue versus debate
Dialogue is an effective communication tool to deal with controversial issues, whereas debate can quickly descend into disagreement. Tool 4.2 provides a comparison of dialogue and debate in communication. Always strive for dialogue in a best-practice approach.
Communication styles
People have different styles of communicating. Effective communicators recognise this. Get to know and understand the strengths and limitations of your communication style, and those of others within your business. Tool 4.3 will help you to do this – and it’s a good fun exercise.
Once barriers or blockages are identified, take action to improve communication. Often new approaches can solve old problems. Discuss the results as a family or a business group, focusing on the positives but also identifying any limitations or challenges. Use tool 1.5 in Plan for Success to identify and build on the positives in your business.
Use your next business meeting (see tool 4.1) to discuss and agree on some actions you think will make communication more effective. Plan a follow-up meeting to allow the impacts of any changes to be evaluated. When ongoing tensions or conflicts exist within the business seek help from an external facilitator or trusted “outsider”.
Important principles to improve communication
- Be aware of the range in communication styles as it is often the way in which a message is delivered that creates a blockage or barrier.
- Analyse yourself before trying to analyse others. Understand why difficulties arise. Be honest, logical, clear in dialogue, and if something is not working, try something new or different to reach a consensus.
- Plan and monitor your strategies to improve communication and relationships. Be positive and proactive. When faced with a difficult situation don’t follow a path of evasion, avoidance, frustration and anger.
- Always work towards creating a win-win situation where there are gains or benefits for both sides.
- Remember we are all ‘difficult people’ to someone so monitor your own behaviour and make changes where necessary.
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